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Keeping death present in our
consciousness, as a great
mystery and opportunity
for transformation,
imbues this moment with
a richness and energy
that denial saps.
Ram Dass (Richard Alpert) |
Avoid
Basic Mistakes When You Choose An Executor
The executor (male) or executrix (female) you choose will
carry out the instructions in your will and has the legal authority to make
your funeral arrangements.
Here are some things to consider:
1. Don't
think of naming an executor as an honour.
It's a responsibility. To be blunt, that person will be signing cheques on your
account and will have
the right to decide who receives your car or anything else you haven't
specifically assigned in your will. Above all, you need someone
trustworthy and impartial.
And you need someone who lives in
the same city as you do.
2. It's not a
reward.
If you have a favourite child or
special friend, remember them in your will, but if they're not good with money
and detail, don't name them as your executor.
Base your decision NOT on sentimentality, but on
trustworthiness, good judgment
and common sense.
3. Think
about someone younger.
Consider reaching across the
generation gap for this one. Remember you can always name your spouse or
old friend as a co-executor. You may also appoint an
alternate executor to take on the responsibility of managing your affairs if
your first choice cannot.
The point is you're looking for
someone who's most likely to outlive you.
4. Talk with this person before you name
him or her your
executor.
Afterwards, give this person a copy of your will.
If
you feel you can't trust your executor with a copy now, how will you able to
trust them later?
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